Q. As you know,
some Muslims who hail from the Caribbean occasionally have Qur’anic
readings for various reasons, e.g., to welcome a newborn, celebrate a birthday,
remember the deceased, etc. These functions typically include relatives and friends,
and some Qur’anic verses are read / pondered,
followed by the participants thanking God for His many bounties and making
additional supplications. Some Muslims claim that these events have no
precedence during the Prophet’s time and as such, they must be discarded.
Specifically with regards to Qur’anic readings for
the deceased, these Muslims state that such events do nothing for the dead, and
they constitute “bid’ah” (innovation), which
is tantamount to shirk (associating partners with God), an unforgivable
sin. They cite voluminous ahadith and
“scholarly opinions” to support their assertions. What is your perspective on
this?
A. I am very much
aware of the the Qur’anic
functions of which you refer. Since you mention that numerous ahadith were referenced, it appears that one of the
most famous hadith about the deceased was conveniently overlooked: "When
a human being dies, all of his deeds are terminated except for three types:
charity that he (or she) gave, useful knowledge passed on from which others
benefit, and a righteous child who makes du'a for him
(or her)." (Muslim and others).
From the perspective of the hadith, it would seem to legitimize the Qur’anic reading
because a Muslim host meets all three objectives outlined in the above hadith:
1) feeding the guests can be considered an act of charity, 2) the occasion
fosters an environment for imparting knowledge, and 3) the host and
participants make a du’a for those around them
as well as the departed parent(s). The ahadith
about bid’ah
deal with that which relates to ritualistic acts of worship, and the Qur’anic reading does not fit this category. The Qur’an
repeatedly states that God is merciful, yet even the prophets made du’as. Are their prayers answered? That is for God
to know, and what matters is that these functions are acts of compassion on our
part. We ask God because He says to ask and He will listen to our prayers. God
did not tell us to limit our asking, or spell out the minutiae as far as what
form our asking should take.
While some of these cultural acts were passed
down to us through generations and are not always according to institutional
ritual, law, and propriety, we host these events out of love and respect for
others. In Islam, God judges us by our intention, and that is why we have no
problem with observing some of our forefathers’ actions, for even though they
may not have been products of a seminary, their actions made them stalwarts,
head and shoulders above those who carry books / degrees and assumed knowledge.
In fact, were it not for our forefathers’ unwavering faith, Islam would not be
present today in the Caribbean and many other parts of the world. An example
that depicts the powerful bond of a parent / child relationship is that the
Qur’an never says that God told Abraham to go and sacrifice his son. Instead,
Abraham said that he saw it in a dream, which he shared with his son. God would
never ask that we kill a loved one, yet both Abraham and his son (peace be upon them) were willing to go through with the sacrifice, and God blessed them both for that
willingness and devotion.
When a Muslim dies, we perform the janazah
not only for the departed person but more so for the family and society. Also,
there are the customs of a community or nation that the Qur’an does not impede.
In our culture / society, the reading is done to get family members and friends
together, and to celebrate the memory of a progenitor who was loved and
respected. Those who campaign against this are missing the social dimension and
benefits of these functions as outlined above. What is the harm in Muslims
getting together for a noble cause; does it not promote cohesion within the
community? The opposite of this is fitna
(dissension), and I strongly encourage those who advocate against these
functions to look beyond their own narrow perspective and stop acting as God’s appointed judges. And Allah knows best.
Posted March 14, 2011